“Will not have many girl friends and will not do ‘girly’ things like shopping with them or having get-togethers to ‘hang out.'” This trait is hard for me to measure myself against. Why? Because I love aesthetics in art and music… I love dress-up for cosplay and dark styles… I enjoy buying new clothes… I like going out for coffee with friends… Do I have female friends? Yes. Do I have male friends? Yes. But the way I hang out always seems slightly off from the neurotypical girl. I rarely just want to chat and am more activity oriented. The activity (dining out, coffee, walking, creating cosplay, watching an anime, etc.) is essential to hanging out. I cannot just sit and chat. Tell me your experience!