Never be afraid to modify your order at a restaurant. If you have an allergy or texture discomfort with a food, ask for it taken out! However, us autistic people can get very detailed. In order to avoid stressing out your server (and feeling guilt/anxiety later), my word of advice is to limit order modifications to two or three. If it’s more than that, just order something else! Personally, I dislike dry, crunchy textures, so croutons are a big no for me!